Doin' The Devil's Tango Ep. 4 - Don't gamble your life away for a relationship

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Alex Meyers

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AwkrdW1llCmdy
AwkrdW1llCmdy преди ден
Dude, your glasses analogy was actually perfect, my current girlfriend I met 2 years ago, we are long distance rn but we always found a way to see each other and it's honestly been so good. It's crazy though because exactly what you said it's like my eyes were opened and I was like "Wait, you mean I don't have to put up with all that bullshit I did before? Dating someone doesn't have to be filled with drama and wanting to pull my hair out?"
Amanda L.
Amanda L. преди 5 дни
3hrs is.
Shi2102
Shi2102 преди 7 дни
I'm sorry but I have to say it, I laughed so hard at the English teacher comment xD I'm from Poland but I live in Japan and every single time you mention some experience, I laugh so much because it's so true!
Krishna Thakkar
Krishna Thakkar преди 18 дни
Love this podcast, thanks for making them Alex!
H S
H S преди 19 дни
Alex gives such good advice, especially for that muslim high schooler!
Anikó Kovács
Anikó Kovács преди 20 дни
Too many psychopaths out there, so I am not dating...
Tyrese Keyter
Tyrese Keyter преди 20 дни
Seems like emotional abuse to me. Fighting shouldn't cause you to be rude enough to cause the other person to cry
Tyrese Keyter
Tyrese Keyter преди 20 дни
getting married is the same thing as having a kid to solve a problem in the relationship
Esther Macky
Esther Macky преди 24 дни
I would send an email. but I have no past or present relationship :)))
Mimsnt Santos
Mimsnt Santos преди 24 дни
KEEP IT WITH THE PODCASTS, LOVE THEM
Trash fairy
Trash fairy преди 25 дни
im twelve watching this listening carefully soo... idk
Trinity Olusola
Trinity Olusola преди 26 дни
Love this podcast! I listen to you while doing my Precal homework. Thanks!! :)
Lizzy Thorne
Lizzy Thorne преди 26 дни
Oh man, that first girl needs to run for her life!! Sorry Alex, I see huge red flags from this man. He sounds like he's not committed to the relationship anymore, and doesn't want to give up anything himself to make it work. I've seen friends go through relationships like this - it will only get worse. Find someone who's willing to sacrifice for You too, and wants to actually move your relationship forward.
hosea lincz
hosea lincz преди 26 дни
I enjoyed listening to you, am not saying that your advices are perfect but they are really good on my personal opinion bro, so thanks.
Meagan Cook
Meagan Cook преди 28 дни
Why are you against people staying with their high school sweethearts?
Mrs tedder
Mrs tedder преди 28 дни
Alex read my email! I truly need help lol
Sarah Castellani
Sarah Castellani преди 28 дни
Getting married without a job will not give you ANY stability.
Freddy Martinez
Freddy Martinez преди 29 дни
If they love each other, and the relationship is great, they have significant amount of time together, they both want to spend the rest of their life with the other, then get married. She has already committed, and she may feel like he is not committed enough. For some people, marriage is another level of commitment, for some people marriage is for life. It sounds to me like he isn't meeting half way. Brushing of marriage like it's not important is insulting to married couples and especially those who have had a long and loving marriage.
oriana
oriana преди месец
Alex, i think you should move back to the states Now that you and your ex broke up, and you have no family in Japan And i think you'll get great job opportunities
Tayla Bonthuis
Tayla Bonthuis преди месец
My partner and i used to live 1 hour and a half and i was the only one with a licence and i didn’t have a proper income only occasional babysitting so it was hard for us to see each other long distance depends on situation aswell im glad you and kelsey get to see each other often tho
Fajer M
Fajer M преди месец
I think a lot of people want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. Then they are disappointed when it doesn't go well. They create these fantasies in their heads that relationships are cute & romantic when they forget that this is real life. They dismiss any behavior that seems threatening to the relationship & have false hope that the relationship is going great. Just because you had a great time with someone ONCE, doesn't mean it will work. Some people just need a reality check. what do you REALLY want? what is the REAL situation now? do you REALLY want to be with that person & that person only? re-evaluate your life. do you NEED to be with someone? Alex said it well: are you just in love with the idea of being in love? Being single is great, don't be fooled by cute couples & unrealistic movies. Learn to feel enough. Appreciate the people in your life that you may take for granted. Be aware of all of that. If you find someone, good for you. If you don't, you are enough. Let it be.
Brent Myrand
Brent Myrand преди месец
Bruh you gettin some serious side glances from my wife here given that we started long distance and she's an English teacher.
Mike Mike
Mike Mike преди месец
Don’t worry I’m not really throwing away much. That’s like when people tell me “Watch out for identity theft!” Like ehhhhh I don’t really think anyone wants mine, I’ll be fine.
Mari
Mari преди месец
Thank you Alex, this was really nice to hear. I was recently dumped and was have been feeling sad for a few weeks. But after binging your podcasts, I just feel less pressure and less sadness overall. I feel much more hopeful for the future. I want to start dating again, but I think for now I wanna focus on me a bit longer and now I feel a lot better about that
Serenade2461
Serenade2461 преди месец
As someone who is getting married next month, I'd like to mention how likely it would be that she'd have to have a long engagement because of Covid-19 (first story)
Juice
Juice преди месец
I don’t think Alex got that first question right. I personally think she should leave now. That relationship isn’t gonna go anywhere no matter how much time she invests. Better cut it now than waiting till she’s 30 to find out it’s not gonna go anywhere.
Mascha Sinha Verma
Mascha Sinha Verma преди месец
Woah I'm the 500th comment
Matt L
Matt L преди месец
"I married him, so I could help him open Jars of pickles" But in any case, sure you can make a timeline and try to be on the same page, yet, life isn't going to follow your timeline;Sometimes you have to go with whatever's happening in the moment and just be happy that you two are willing and are committed,if you can't handle a few bad things in life or gotta wait for a special better moment, then ...Jeez how will you be able to go on through life!but ots okay, I've told ya now, so you can fix it or do something similar or do nothing either way Girls gotta know he's does want that too but the timeline did not oversee a pandemic, so right now he's saving up for that future you guys want and getting you 2 secure so you and your children ( when you guys have any)don't end up on the street; and having his Girlfriend stay and support him helping him to might be the comfort of mind saying I'll be here during hard times, so we can enjoy our good times later and we'll have a : as close as we can make it timeline. Thank you for My Ted Talk.
lisafagerli
lisafagerli преди месец
Can you talk about your views on religion on an episode? :D
laila khaled
laila khaled преди месец
i love how he uses metaphors
KaylynnWasHere
KaylynnWasHere преди месец
"I am very introverted. Now a lot people think that means you're socially awkward, I don't think that's true at all. I can talk a good talk, I can...speak...words...good" Mood
mms208
mms208 преди месец
To the 19 yr old introvert: I was you. Exactly you. I stayed in a relationship way too long because I was scared of loneliness. That relationship turned bad, and I was left alone regardless. But I’m very thankful, because being alone taught me so much. I gained confidence, I began to depend on myself more, I found out how strong I could be. I’m sad sometimes when I think of the time I wasted on that relationship just because I didn’t want to be alone. However, it taught me such a valuable lesson. Yes, it can be hard at first. Yes, it seems intimidating. But all that passes and what you’re left with (as Alex said) is pure freedom. It’s the best feeling in the world. I hope everything works out for you, stay strong ❤️
cata morales perez
cata morales perez преди месец
This is the podcast I needed like 3-4 years ago, I was soooo desperate to date someone in high school bc most of my friends were but I could not really found anyone and I felt so bad about it... And then the people who were into me were.. Not the best so.. Yeah 21 and still haven't dated 😂 now I feel pretty good about it
P K
P K преди месец
I wanna do the devils tango with Alex 😩
Thegrimmeater
Thegrimmeater преди месец
I feel like if youre 18 its ok to date someone whos 17 16 I feel like would be a case by case situation and if youre 19 17 is ok but 16 is not
Wolfgem Playz 101
Wolfgem Playz 101 преди месец
I'm a new subscriber would you be able to do deadtime stories in one of your upcoming videos? Anyway I love your channel 😋🙂
Andrea Pérez
Andrea Pérez преди месец
It would be great if this had a podcast Higlight!
Ruby Hobbit
Ruby Hobbit преди месец
I'm in the military usually its 9 per room so 8 actually doesnt sound that bad
Daniel Baran
Daniel Baran преди месец
To give an answer to Noor’s (and if you happen to be watching this, I’m so sorry if I misspelled your name) question, I’d say it’s worth it to date in high school. Coming from a guy who was in Alex’s position of having never dated in high school (probably because I came off/looked like a sketchy dude, is introverted, and on the autistic spectrum), I see it as a way to improve your social skills, learn what to do/not do, “learn the ropes,” etc. in a small(er) environment so that when you enter college and/or the real world, you will have an easier time navigating social situations; unlike, someone like me who probably needs to go to a social skills counselor at some point when COVID-19 ends stateside. But keep in mind, the choice of whether or not to go against your religion is entirely up to you and also, don’t let peer pressure corrupt your values.
Ramanuj Baruah
Ramanuj Baruah преди месец
Hey guess what I did. Moved to a different country for a girl who then dumped me a week before we were supposed to meet.
Leigh Black
Leigh Black преди месец
The girl with her boss, he may be asexual. He may really be interested in being close friends. The fact that he doesn't talk about girls or dating with his brother and friends is kinda a red flag. Most people at least talk about it in passing. He may not understand it himself or he may be afraid that she would freak out if he told her the truth.
Allison West
Allison West преди месец
Here's my question, where do you draw the line between a permanent part of a person's personality and something that you can encourage them to work on or change?
Pixel Meyers
Pixel Meyers преди месец
Wow👏🏾 Awesome question, definitely will be thinking about this one.
Allison West
Allison West преди месец
I personally like when you do these videos alone, and not with someone else (like in the second video), but that's just my personal opinion
Maija Shea
Maija Shea преди месец
She’s 19, he’s 23. Yeah makes sense. “We’ve been in a relationship for 5 years” HOLD UP. FBI
violet kihara
violet kihara преди месец
I feel like the first girl needs to learn to do things for herself (self-love) she is giving too much to someone who isn't giving much
Marlene Ornelas
Marlene Ornelas преди месец
Maybe you can watch the Netflix show ( the mr. Peabody and Sherman show) its a 2017 show👍👍👍👌👌👌
Batman
Batman преди месец
Thought you were going to dance, but then I checked the video title I watched earlier and realized it's called "Devil's Swing". Lol.
Queenzie Queenza
Queenzie Queenza преди месец
Last time I did the “😏😈 *dEvILs TaNgO* 😈😏” was in December...ain’t that sad 😞
Gaming Keyyy
Gaming Keyyy преди месец
do cobra kai plz
Reddit User
Reddit User преди месец
He should react to “how far is tattoo far”they have the wildest couples
H Begum
H Begum преди месец
The Muslim brother I think your name is Noor. If you're confused I think you should seek out Islamic help. There is a youtuber called dawahman if you want to you can watch some of his vids and even contact him. He helps a lot of youth. His email should be on his channel. May Allah help us and guide us.
Elena
Elena преди месец
You do give really good relationship advice ~ thank you
Ayesha jahir
Ayesha jahir преди месец
11:49 I don't know why I got soo excited after hearing my little country's name which is not very famous
Raghad Amr
Raghad Amr преди месец
For noor the muslim girl, I hope you read this because I am muslim too and I have experienced the same peer pressure of dating or girls always discussing their boy problems around me but I have never dated and never will because regardless what anyone says, it is haram... I understand it might get hard to hold on to your islamic values, but you have to always remind yourself that what's haram will always be haram even if everyone is doing it... I don't know where you live so you might have a different experience, but as alex said you aren't really missing out on a lot by not dating, most high school relationships suck and as for us here in middle east, most relationships outside of marriage end miserably. It is way better for you to focus on your ambitions and dreams now and try to make yourself a better person and a better muslim in every way, so when the right person comes you both are mature enough to have a relationship good enough that you never regret not dating.
Jaguars Wølf
Jaguars Wølf преди месец
Watch sonic the hedgehog
Jessica Kellock
Jessica Kellock преди месец
U should do ' The Next Step ' for one of ur videos
Wendy Griffin
Wendy Griffin преди месец
Could you do the Christmas prince to react to?
Mackenzie Mc
Mackenzie Mc преди месец
The last email was close to what my last relationship was like, except I could blame age on his lack of maturity. He was actually a year older then me.
Ella Claire the tar heel
Ella Claire the tar heel преди месец
Can you put this on like apple podcast or something
valentina charlo
valentina charlo преди месец
Your next video should be about "Julie and the phantoms" the new netflix show, it´s absolutely amazing
Corey Sanders
Corey Sanders преди месец
To Boss girl... Maybe he doesn't want to define anything BECAUSE he's her boss. Any chance there's a rule at work about dating subordinates, and that it would put their jobs at risk if they became "official"? I don't necessarily agree, buy that could be why he doesn't want to have "the talk".
Ali the Heep
Ali the Heep преди месец
It’s still a bad sign that he’s 31 and can’t articulate his reasons. Avoiding uncomfortable conversations is understandable but he’s refusing to answer direct questions.
Pigeon Boy
Pigeon Boy преди месец
Can you put it on appple podcast
Allahgator's Swamp
Allahgator's Swamp преди месец
6 ads in one vid really BGcd
Anna Neprawskey
Anna Neprawskey преди месец
why can't i find this episode on the podcast channel?
Wonder Panda
Wonder Panda преди месец
I love these podcast! Alex is a great advisor person. I listen to these after school and I feel like they're relatable 😸
L B G
L B G преди месец
I love it when he talks about kelsey (sorry if I spelled it wrong)
Aidan Carroll
Aidan Carroll преди месец
when is this going to be available on spotify?
viktoro zubin
viktoro zubin преди месец
marriage is the best way to grow to grow together(personal opinion)
Carohleenah
Carohleenah преди месец
me a junior in college with a nose ring and purple hair: 😳
Laskai Tamás
Laskai Tamás преди месец
15:31 I have never felt myself more triggered.
Carmeleon HP
Carmeleon HP преди месец
You know what? Imma actually send something in. I thought I wouldn't, but the story got quite interesting this weekend
Georgegaming 24
Georgegaming 24 преди месец
Can you react to the new "babysitter killer queen" by Netflix
Andrea Acosta Ferro
Andrea Acosta Ferro преди месец
CAN YOU DO A VIDEO ON COBRA KAI PLS ITS SO UNDERRATED!!
MezzMar
MezzMar преди месец
Dude, you haven't uploaded the third episode to spotify
Kya Ambrose
Kya Ambrose преди месец
Can you do the seven deadly sins???
Norabella V
Norabella V преди месец
I was listening to this and accidentally fell asleep, I can’t find my earbud now. I loved it anyways.
Sana rehmat A Kodakeri
Sana rehmat A Kodakeri преди месец
You need an intro
Tamari- Chan
Tamari- Chan преди месец
I just wanna recommend an anime called My Hero Academia so thats it
Silly Kibble
Silly Kibble преди месец
React to cuties on Netflix trust me 😂😂😂
Silvermoon
Silvermoon преди месец
13:20 ish mark. I think many women fear being alone not only because of how unsafe it is to be a single woman who lives alone, but also because we have thousands of years behind us of society enforcing the notion that a woman needs to be married as fast as possible. If you're single, there's something wrong with you, men don't want you, etc. It was considered to be a great shame if your daughter never married, and even though our society is progressing, that notion remains in a lot of people's heads.
Jason Floodberg
Jason Floodberg преди месец
I have absolutely been loving these videos. I'm 31 and it's so good to see someone who has a very similar point of view of relationships as I do. If I can suggest something though?. I would do a little wrap up at the end of the video so it doesn't feel so abrupt of an ending. Besides that the videos are amazing keep up the good work
ava paw
ava paw преди месец
For the 1st one if your both having financial problems I'd say it's best to wait till your stable financially ^_^ good luck to that couple
Glinjan
Glinjan преди месец
Wow... This episode helped me get over some stuff. Thank you for that!!!
Cli-Kar-Mar Davis
Cli-Kar-Mar Davis преди месец
*20 years later his son be like* Doin The Devils Tango makes no sense
Rivero Kenshiro
Rivero Kenshiro преди месец
never date your boss, when thing goes sour ggwp.
Hawa
Hawa преди месец
Im also muslim and I never dated in high school, I started dating last year, now I'm almost 21 and in college and I really don't regret it, I'm actually glad I didn't date before. Like even right now it's not that marvellous to date, people haven't figured out yet who they are and what they want, me either hahah
Dy Eau3
Dy Eau3 преди месец
I just feel hilarious listening this podcast I’ve been single for about 5 years, with zero intention of dating, and somehow here🤣.
Matthew Latter
Matthew Latter преди месец
My advice for dating in high school? *Don't*
BeenALongDay
BeenALongDay преди месец
Facts
Vitor
Vitor преди месец
hey alex, I really like your videos and I wanna say that this tipe of podcast is really cool to
Simran Thakur
Simran Thakur преди месец
I think if the person who has been together for six years wants they should discuss a polyamarous relationship or an open relationship to see “What they are missing”
HannahS
HannahS преди месец
Love listening to these!
Enjinks
Enjinks преди месец
Let's be honest for 1 sec here If marriage doesn't mean more commitment than just a relationship, why would someone say they don't feel ready for it ? If you truly think you have found your life partner, would you think you need to wait some more time for... what exactly? Does marriage makes it impossible to continue studying ? To save up money? To pursue your dreams ? If the answer is yes, then that means you don't want to commit all the way (or it's not a good match)
Ali the Heep
Ali the Heep преди месец
The main advantages of marriage are legal - right to make medical decisions etc.
Damien Knox
Damien Knox преди месец
A match is surely brewin':)
Kyra Doles
Kyra Doles преди месец
Seriously loving this podcast
Isicoy Takapu
Isicoy Takapu преди месец
Could u do titans
yumi456
yumi456 преди месец
I think 3 hours is long-distance. Don't forget that not everybody lives in the US were you drive 3 hours and are still in the same city. In Europe if you drive 3 hours you may drive through 3 countrys xD
yumi456
yumi456 преди месец
@Rita I'm from Luxembourg :)
Rita
Rita преди месец
Where are you from ? I'm from France ☺️
MInute MAN
MInute MAN преди месец
I would like a girlfriend
CharmedNijntje
CharmedNijntje преди месец
I need more of this
KiroKina
KiroKina преди месец
Situation in email #4 happened to my brother. His perfectly happy girlfriend wanted something “more” and was seeking out different experiences, so they broke up and she never looked back. She didn’t find another guy until like 6 years later and never went back to my brother. Also, I’ve been with my current boyfriend for 6 years and he has been my only relationship, and I don’t have those feelings at all. I don’t think there’s something missing and I don’t think I need to live out different experiences. Idk if these people read the comments on the podcast but I agree with Alex. If you let it go you might never find what you once had.
IIアニカ
IIアニカ преди 27 дни
Yes I am reading it :) That is my email and I have to add that I got these feelings not all the time but there are phases when it’s like that. My boyfriend on the other hand tells me the same as you. He never feels this way but he can understand me. Nevertheless it was really nice to hear Alex talking like that about my relationship and I really don’t take this connection for granted but I should enjoy my luck a lot more.
vintagehollywoodandheavymetal
vintagehollywoodandheavymetal преди месец
I.... don't see why it matters if you get married and have kids after 30 as a woman? I don't want kids at all myself, especially not before 35 cause I feel it'd ruin my freedom.
Ali the Heep
Ali the Heep преди месец
If you want kids, 25-35 is prime baby-havin’ time. After 35 is considered “advanced maternal age” and chance of complications and birth defects goes up, plus chances of needing fertility treatments. It’s obviously still very doable to have kids from 35-45, but there are more problems. So if you know you want them, i understand not wanting to put it off without a good reason.
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